I Guess Things Happen That Way

A very good friend of mine recently said to me with regards to my taste in women, that I never take the easy option and that I always seem to like a challenge! (cheers Denn)
Well, she is probably right, but I can't really say why that is.
All I can say is that I've always tended to follow my heart, rather than my head...and that's what has usually led me into trouble! Lol.

As the legendary Johnny Cash sang,
"you asked me if I'll find another, I don't know, I can't say,
 I don't like it, but I guess things happen that way..."

Whilst always adhering to the principles of being a gentleman who won't kiss and tell, nor name any names, I will however site some of my 'challenges' below. They include:

A mental and abusive psycho, who put me in hospital on more than one occassion;
A Maylasian stunner, who used me to get over her own failed marriage (not that I was complaining);
An ex-'top shelf' model & lapdancer, who failed to mention that she actually had a boyfriend who had just been released from prison after serving a sentence for GBH;
A petite brunette thirteen years my junior, who also had a mother who took quite a shine to me;
A gorgeous yet feisty barmaid, who treated me to one ever so memorable summer;
and a Polynesian beauty, who just happens to live on the other side of the world.

Most recently, my affections have been targeted towards a lovely young blonde, who tragically appears to have heartbreaking health issues ~ the full extent of which remains unknown to me at the time of writing this blog...I can only strive to be strong for her, keep my faith, and not give up hope.

I think my timing has always been lousy with regards to relationships too, as I always seem to meet someone special at the wrong time. She may have just become single, and you're torn between being respectful and giving her time to get over things, or thinking that you should steam right in there!
Then you find that if you take the first option, some other bugger has nipped in and taken the spoils.
Or if you dive heart first straight in, you soon come to realise that it's too soon for her so things don't work out...I just can't win! Lol.

Oh well, I can't really complain ~ this old, ugly, ramblin' fella has been pretty lucky I guess.
I've had my moments for sure, and shared some precious times with some very special and gorgeous women, so I do honestly feel extremely fortunate.

Incidentally, my ideal woman by choice would probably have to be the actress, Lisa Bonet (pictured).
She has genuinely befriended me on Facebook under the guise of her spiritual name, Lilakoi Moon, and I think it's this shared views on spirituality which has led her to like some of my recent postings... although quite what she'll make of this if she reads it is anyone's guess?

Ramblin' Steve